Some time off.

Posted: September 6, 2018 in Daily Posts

As many of you know I have had a fairly torrid time family wise the last few weeks, culminating with a funeral yesterday.

All done and dusted now, but I need a week or two to decompress from the last few weeks, so no sessions available this month, and first bookable date is 2nd October, but you can call me before then.

MM x

Nekkid or not?

Posted: August 9, 2018 in Daily Posts

A point of interest came up in a discussion with a potential sub today.

How the Mistress looks in a session.

The images I have on this site and the ones I use to advertise are fairly classic type of images. Cleavage, bums, boobs, tight skirts etc. They are advertising images. I might look like that at the beginning of a session, if required, but I certainly won’t be at the end.

When I am in session, as most of my regular subs know, the kit comes off.

I’m not a clothes horse, or a woman who is very much interested in appearance on the whole. I’m clean and tidy etc, but clothes and tying rope are a bit of an issue. You get hot. It’s hard physical work. You sweat. Bra and knicks are the obvious choice for a session (however, I have gone starkers if I feel like it – closet nudist that I am, if the sub or slave has no issue with my lovely wobbly bits.)

It’s my prerogative to choose how I work, and you need to be comfy with that. If you are not and need certain clothing to make the session work for you, then be clear when we both first start talking. This sub has been clear and we are discussing such matters.

MM x

Whistle while you work….

Posted: August 2, 2018 in Daily Posts

..if you are a certain age then a line from ‘Dads Army’ has just popped into your head. Failing that ‘Snow white and the Seven Short People’.

But I digress.

I have lovely bookings coming in. Squeeeeeee!

I am working in my OWN studio in my OWN property and it’s bloody fab.

So pleased to get back to doing regular rope work, and electrics (I missed my electrics box)

Obviously the vast majority of my kit has been packed away from around 18 months. And getting everything out the other week was like making fiends all over again with my lovely toys and kit. Oh, I remember when I used that in…and Ahh that’s comfy flogger etc etc

I had packed it all away quite carefully. Nothing was damaged or broken. I still have a few bags of bits and pieces to find, and cross dressing sessions are off the menu until I can find my clothing bags which are in the loft somewhere (and who wants to rummage in a loft in this heat??? – perhaps I should make that a new form of torture?)

So overall, it’s all going in the right direction.

Remember, if you haven’t seen me before, you NEED to organise a call before you book. You can do it well in advance so that if you want to book with just 24 hours notice, you can do so. I am not accepting any bookings with anyone I don’t feel 100% comfortable with (and you have to feel comfy with me of course)

see you soon

MM x

Nearly there…

Posted: June 22, 2018 in Daily Posts

I am pleased to announce that I will be taking bookings for sessions at my new studio from the beginning of August.

The studio is approximately 6m x 4m and has a shower and toilet room.
Off road parking is available.
It is a domestic style room, so no red and black dungeon type stuff.

I will have a full length bench, a spanking bench, a bondage chair, an upright flogging/whipping bench, ceiling restraints (no suspension at present), sleep sack, strait jacket, fucking machine, a cold dark cupboard for isolation, Erostek electrics and all my usual floggers, whips, canes, candles, pegs and other gadgets and gizmos.

If I have seen you in the last 18 months, I will be happy to take a booking from you with no deposit. If I have seen you before, but NOT in the last 18 months I will need a deposit of 50% of the session fee.

If I have not seen you before, I will need to speak with you on the phone. It will be a 10-15 min call and I will need your first name. No sexual talk will be entered into and we will discuss what you have done, if anything as complete novices are welcome, and you can request the style of session you are interested in. During the call, you will be given my payments details for payment of a deposit of 50% of the session fee.

The call will take place a mutually agreed time, arranged by email.

My fees for the studio will be £120 an hour in increments of 30 minutes.
Minimum of an hour and a maximum session of 3 hours will be the limit at present.

You can allow 15 minutes before and after the session for a nerve settling chat beforehand and cup of tea wind down afterwards.

I dislike hour long ‘splash and dash’ type sessions. However, I appreciate that sometimes time is short.

I will be finishing off the studio over the next couple of months, and tweaking all the new kit and making sure it’s all fabulous.

I will only be seeing THREE clients a week. I am running two other businesses now, so my time is extremely precious. However, I love Domming and look forward to seeing many of my previous subs and slaves and new ones too.

I appreciate that for some of you it will be a long trip, but trust me, it will be worth it. Contact me to find out why.

I am in Italy next week, but taking mails. Calls will begin from 5th July.

MM x

Progress report…

Posted: May 24, 2018 in Daily Posts

..and I can report good progress.

Having had a bit of a hiatus with our plasterer falling off a ladder and being out of action for two weeks, we are now back on track.

Plastering finished this week, then it’s painting time. Bathroom is almost completed, just flooring to go down.

Windows to paint and skirting board, and then flooring in main room. New storage units and then moving in kit ( which has been patiently stored in a HUGE flight case in the garage)

I cannot wait to get finished and in there….. ;-)

About 8 weeks I hope….

MM x

‘Op north we go…

Posted: May 4, 2018 in Daily Posts

Yes I am off for one of my regular working holidays in Scotland this week. I will next be available on 21st May for bookings.

Looks like you going to get lovely weather in and around London, meanwhile it forecast for rain in the far north west.


Oh well.

My partner and I are taking our female slave with us so I have a feeling it is going to be a painful week for her and an amusing one for us. However I really do have to get some work done up there, so she can’t spend the entire week with her head between my legs. Only 90% perhaps….. :-P


Meanwhile the studio is moving forwards and we have a shower now, and soon plaster on the walls.

The place is not going to be decorated in a traditional dungeon style, I’m pretty tired of red and back I have to say, so it will be a light airy domestic colour, probably a soft yellow to make it cosy.

A colour scheme that can accommodate many different styles of play is important. Many people are moving away from the traditional ‘dungeon’ look of a playspace as it is really a bit old hat I feel.

There will be parking only 10 metres from the door, and I cannot wait to start receiving subs and slaves for sessions there.

It’s been a long, long time coming…

MM x

Plaster dust in your hair is…

Posted: April 30, 2018 in Daily Posts

…simply not sexy, not unless you have a Nurse/patient thing going on and want the dust sheen from the hair, mixed with water and then applied to a limb.

Probably not quite enough for that at the moment, because thankfully most of the plaster is going on the walls.

‘What walls’ I hear you cry? The walls of my new studio of course.

Yes, things are moving along nicely, and we have gone from the demolition stage, to the acres of timber stage, to the endless sheets of plaster board and Kingspan stage and now it’s plastering, sanding down windows and filling, plumbing, etc etc.

It’s still going to be a couple of months. I really hope a beginning of July kick off will be on the cards, and I can’t bloody wait.

A purpose built, completely discreet, rurally located, private parking, easy to access entrance studio with bathroom including HUGE shower and all my usual bits and pieces. I will have overhead suspension, spanking bench, bondage chair, a new torture table, cock press, fucking machine and so, so much more….

My studio will only be available for thoroughly vetted and 100% sensible and trustworthy subs and slaves who value an unhurried, quality BDSM session focusing on extreme bondage with strait jacket, body bag and rope or chain, Estim electrics, wax play, cbt, nipple play, predicament bondage, objectification, intense pain play, plug insertion, water sports, and a new favourite of mine is ‘tied up, plugged, gagged and just left lying in a corner for an hour’ – I’m sure there is a fancy name for it, but you get the idea.

Simply can’t wait…but first off to Scotland for a week to frighten the deer and sheep. :-)


Bloody snow…

Posted: March 20, 2018 in Daily Posts

It had to happen.

Worst winter that I am ensconced in the countryside and we have the worst weather on 5 years….

I sincerely hope the damn snow is going to go now.

It’s been a pretty uphill battle recently with illness, selling houses, then long cold wet winter and now finally we have started building new studio. At last!!!

We have a building, with a floor and internal walls next on the list.

Electrics, plumbing, then reams of plasterboard and finally decorating.

It’s all take  so  long and I know many of you thought it was never going to happen. I NEVER thought to was going to happen. But 2018 is the year of the recovered kinky mojo and please, can we have some nice warm weather….am tired of the wet and cold.

Pics will be posted on the private blog as we go. I’ll try get some later today.

Still available at Gatwick and also recently used a nice little place down near Bexhill.

MM x

And finally…

Posted: January 17, 2018 in Daily Posts

So after many months of waiting, prevarication, planning irritation and simply trying to work out the best way to do things, we are about to embark on building the new studio.


The ground will be cleared in a week or so’s time, and we can begin to build, assuming we don’t end up with as much snow as Scotland in the immediate future.

It will be about the size of my previous playroom in Oxfordshire, with a toilet and shower and be warm, snug and perfect for play. There will be a central beam for upright play, a bondage chair, spanking bench and a very robust table for tying subs and slaves to. I have new kit such as a leather body bag/sleep sack for use and all my usual toys and activities will be up for use.

I am beyond excited and really hope that we’ll be ready for use around mid April.

Now, I will only be doing a certain number of sessions a week. I have several businesses as many of you know and am madly busy all the time.

So I will only be seeing subs and slaves I want to.

If you wish to contact me to express and interest on seeing me at my new venue, please mail me. Be quick, I already have quite a few regulars who will transfer from Gatwick and other venues. I have very limited places.

Please note the it will only be accessible by car, or on the Victoria line around 45 minutes out of London. There is a local station I can collect you from.

I look forward to hearing from you…

MM x

First post of the Year…

Posted: January 3, 2018 in Daily Posts

Happy New Ears to you all, and first post of the year to say, I’ll already a few bookings, so don’t delay if you were going to see me in January.

Catch up soon,

MM x