Bloody snow…

Posted: March 20, 2018 in Daily Posts

It had to happen.

Worst winter that I am ensconced in the countryside and we have the worst weather on 5 years….

I sincerely hope the damn snow is going to go now.

It’s been a pretty uphill battle recently with illness, selling houses, then long cold wet winter and now finally we have started building new studio. At last!!!

We have a building, with a floor and internal walls next on the list.

Electrics, plumbing, then reams of plasterboard and finally decorating.

It’s all take  so  long and I know many of you thought it was never going to happen. I NEVER thought to was going to happen. But 2018 is the year of the recovered kinky mojo and please, can we have some nice warm weather….am tired of the wet and cold.

Pics will be posted on the private blog as we go. I’ll try get some later today.

Still available at Gatwick and also recently used a nice little place down near Bexhill.

MM x

And finally…

Posted: January 17, 2018 in Daily Posts

So after many months of waiting, prevarication, planning irritation and simply trying to work out the best way to do things, we are about to embark on building the new studio.


The ground will be cleared in a week or so’s time, and we can begin to build, assuming we don’t end up with as much snow as Scotland in the immediate future.

It will be about the size of my previous playroom in Oxfordshire, with a toilet and shower and be warm, snug and perfect for play. There will be a central beam for upright play, a bondage chair, spanking bench and a very robust table for tying subs and slaves to. I have new kit such as a leather body bag/sleep sack for use and all my usual toys and activities will be up for use.

I am beyond excited and really hope that we’ll be ready for use around mid April.

Now, I will only be doing a certain number of sessions a week. I have several businesses as many of you know and am madly busy all the time.

So I will only be seeing subs and slaves I want to.

If you wish to contact me to express and interest on seeing me at my new venue, please mail me. Be quick, I already have quite a few regulars who will transfer from Gatwick and other venues. I have very limited places.

Please note the it will only be accessible by car, or on the Victoria line around 45 minutes out of London. There is a local station I can collect you from.

I look forward to hearing from you…

MM x

First post of the Year…

Posted: January 3, 2018 in Daily Posts

Happy New Ears to you all, and first post of the year to say, I’ll already a few bookings, so don’t delay if you were going to see me in January.

Catch up soon,

MM x

Spiking stats…

Posted: December 27, 2017 in Daily Posts

It always amazes me that on the 25th and 26th of December every year I get  spike in my stats.

So all of you out there stuck with the in laws on Christmas day, still find time to check in on my blog.

Sorry there wasn’t anything exciting to find, however those of you who have access to my private blog might enjoy tonights offering.

Access to my private blog is only for subs who have sessions with me, so if you want to see goodies, then you need to come for a session…simples….

Happy New Ears and see you soon

MM x

Christmas is a coming…

Posted: November 28, 2017 in Daily Posts

..and I’m already pretty well booked.

If you are new and considering coming to see me, please follow the directions on the ‘How to Book’ page.

It’s important. I DO NOT do same day bookings. I need 48 hours notice at least and many subs book weeks in advance to guarantee the day they want.

Have a good look at my calendar before you enquire too,

MM x


Posted: November 19, 2017 in Daily Posts

So we have reached November and thankfully my house is now sold and I have some sanity back in my life, plus a new car that is a tad more reliable.

The next plan is the build my new studio, but due to it now being winter, damn cold and bit damp, we will begin in Jan. By end of Spring I should finally have my new place ready to receive visitors.

I cannot wait….I so miss my own place…

Until then, I do have a lovely collection of places to hold sessions, plus have treated myself to a couple of toys, a penis pump and a leather sleep sack.

I feel that combined together I can make suffering and even more enjoyable art form.

If you fancy trying them out, consult my calendar and book a session.

MM x

Availability in October

Posted: October 20, 2017 in Daily Posts

I have only three days available now, until  13th November.

The 25th, 30th and 31st

I am working away in Scotland after that until the 12th November.

If you have previously seen me in my own studio and are concerned about issues of privacy when hiring another studio or dungeon, don’t be. Privacy and discretion is the watchword for all kink based venue owners.

MM x

So Mr weinerstein finally got caught.

One guy of many, sadly.

RainDeGrey’s post  ‘An uncomfortable truth’ sums many omens feelings up quite nicely about sexual predators. ( It’s on Fetlife, you need to sign in to read it)

This is yet one more reason why I really like sub men. Not cos they know their place. Not cos they are ‘worms’ to be used and abused ( although in a play context that is good fun) but cos they have bloody manners and treat women and true equals.

They know where the sexual boundary lines run. They know that coercion, pressuring and whining until you get your knickers off (with that slight hint of menace going on in the background ‘ I AM bigger that you’) is just wrong.

They are supposed in the cartoon world, to treat you like some amazing goddess of porn. But they don’t REAL sub guys treat you like an equal. A person who is more than just tits and ass.

Now there are some non sub guys who also treat women well, but very few ( I have my own lovely on in my life) but most men grow up ‘entitled’:

I’m bigger/stronger than you, I can fuck you if I want to.

Now spend your day having that in the back of your head and see what its like being a woman. Seriously, try it. It’s a bit of an eye opener.

MM x


The sun is shining…

Posted: October 8, 2017 in Daily Posts

…however I have a horrid cold.

Currently down to 50 tissues an hour from a top rate of around 120 yesterday evening.

Cold and flu tablets on standby and Mrs May has given me the remainder of her Strepsils ( apparently Boris has gone home now so she feels better)  and all I need now is a sub to massage my feet and place them gently on a hot water bottle.

House still not exchanged/completed so any volunteers who want to lend me a million quid are very welcome right now, please give me a call/text/carrier pigeon.

Someone told me it was ‘Christmas in 100 and something days’ yesterday in a horribly cheery manner. I think my sarcastically raised eyebrow said it all….

Christmas is banned this year….


MM x


No more complete bloody wusses…..

Posted: September 5, 2017 in Daily Posts

September is going to whizz passed in a flash, and I have plenty happening in it, including I hope,  a house sale ( fingers crossed)

Once thats all done and dusted and I have enjoyed a nice break in Malta, then it’s nose back to the grindstone.

For the immediate future I am going to continue renting other premises. There is a huge variety of really good, well-equipped places all over the UK now and I’m happy to travel and my fees are very reasonable ( in comparison to many Mistresses)

I am also really enjoying the hotel room based sessions which I do for extreme bondage and restraint in a domestic setting. Rope plus bath equals extreme breath play….. ;-D

I’m going to be announcing so new types of sessions, beginning in October. Shorter and longer than before. New types to stretch the imagination and promote interest for real submissive and slaves who appreciate an immaculately thought out session and executed perfectly. Perfectly enough to give you goosebumps! After 11 years as a professional Mistress the hum drum no longer rocks my boat.

So for example – Extreme bondage sessions. No safe word caning sessions with minimum numbers of strokes. Extreme stress position sessions, with no release until set period has been achieved.

As I am going to be involved in a new business venture soon, I am going to be reducing my available session days down to three days a week only. So, that helps me keep my edge and make sure it all works smoothly.

I’m going to be buying a few new toys too. :-)

So keep and eye out here for more news…

MM x