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This week so far…

Posted: March 13, 2012 in Uncategorized

I’ve been terribly unMistressy this week so far, having my car’s Air con fixed, doing numerous odd jobs round the house, paperwork…eughhh and lastly fiddling with new website designs.

Back in the saddle tomorrow and a nice long session which will be delightful.

This year seems to be flying by, and I’m already taking bookings for end of April and have amended my calendar with available dates and so forth.

Thankfully this weekend will be a party weekend, yay and I could seriously do with it. Time to misbehave….

Feet and wax

Posted: March 10, 2012 in Uncategorized

Need I say more?
I don’t think I need to…..


Posted: March 9, 2012 in Uncategorized

Thank heavens it’s Friday!

I’m pooped.

Been a busy week and a lovely 4 hour session today in Banbury was a pleasant conclusion. I will certainly enjoy a lie in tomorrow, before launching into the regular weekend stuff. But we also have Rugby!! Something good to watch and next weekend F1 is back…and I have Sky HD. Sorry, to gloat to those who do not.

I have a couple of quieter weeks coming up, and as such have a few days free, if you have been trying to squeeze in a session to see me. Get in no, before Easter and it gets a bit busier again!!



Posted: March 3, 2012 in Uncategorized

I’ve been out this afternoon, to see ‘The Best exotic Marigold Hotel’ which I can thoroughly recommend.
Highly amusing although I think you need to be 40+ to really get it all.
Some of my favourite actors are in it, including the lovely Bill Nighy. He made such a fabulous ‘Slartybartfast’ in ‘Hitchikers’ one of my favourite stories. I love the book as much as the film and TV series.

Other favourites books and writers are ‘A Clockwork Orange’ by Anthony Burgess. Anything by J.G. Ballard and all the Dick Francis novels, cos I’m a sucker for a good horse based yarn.

I’ve often joked I should have a library instead of a lounge…I read more than I watch TV.

Sunday tomorrow and a possible trip to the Ashmolean Museum in Oxford might be on the cards, weather and ironing dependant. (Oh for a good domestic slave!)
They recently had a complete renovation of certain galleries and I’ve had a brief wander around, but not an extensive one. So we’ll see how much time I have tomorrow, a visit may have to wait another day.

I’ve had a lot of trips out recently with friends and relatives staying. Concerts to see Rammstein in London and Brum, trips to the RA to see Hockneys latest pics. A day in Oxford to see the Castle and prison.
The RA trip was lovely as the weather was warm and so a wander through Green Park to Buck House was very welcome after so many cold damp days.

But back to normal this week, and looking forward to some lovely long sessions


Hanging around…

Posted: February 28, 2012 in Uncategorized

A quick pic of a naughty boy hanging around during a session last week.

My favourite strappy hangy thingie in the dungeon. Once your in you can’t move….so it’s perfect.

More pics to come once I have edited them…

Crazy week!!!

Posted: February 27, 2012 in Uncategorized


That’ the sound of a Mistress kicking off her shoes, after a very busy day. One of many busy days over the last week. I’ve had an overseas friend staying with me the last 10 days and it’s been fabulous!
Days out, dinners out, a couple of rock concerts. Shopping and much more! But sadly today she had to go home…oh well.

But not back to work yet, as I have an art exhibition in London tomorrow, I am off to see, and then Wednesday will be catching up day with another friend.

THEN back to work….

but right now….who wants to rub my feet???



Posted: February 16, 2012 in Uncategorized

I do so enjoy taking something vanilla and perverting it.

I have a good friend who is moving house soon and as such is clearing out 20+ years of junk from her loft. Now being a second hand skip rummage monkey (I have been know to climb into skips and ‘liberate’ items…) she lets me know when she has lots of bits to look at.

Yesterday is was a couple of mirrors and a chocolate fondue set. Well the mirrors will suit partners new cottage and the fondue set…

It’s absolutely perfect for warming large quantities of wax for wax play!! She looked at me as I stared at it and said ‘You’re getting norty ideas…’.

So no chocolate going in it, but I will be investing in a lot of wax beads and Crayola crayons very soon…:-)


Posted: February 15, 2012 in Uncategorized

Yes, my tickets have arrived and it’s that time of the two/three years when Mistress gets to behave like an adolescent fangirl and sqeeeeeeeeeeee at a rock band.
I’m off to a couple of concerts next week for my favourite band…Rammstein.
Lovely kinky Germanic sweaty nortiness….and yes, one of my favourite songs is ‘Büch Dich’ involving a ball gag and squirty dildo. It doesn’t take much kinkiness to keep me happy! for those who don’t know.

A busy weekend…

Posted: February 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

A very busy weekend, with furniture shopping for my partners new holiday cottage yesterday, and fitting out the kitchen with all the bits and bobs needed for someone staying in it.
Then a lovely quiet dinner for the two of us last night in our local favourite restaurant.
They have a conjurer there on Saturday eves and he is amazing. His slight of hand is stunning and he’s so fast you have no idea where the cards go!
Lovely guy too who was in the forces until invalided out, so spent a good few minutes being naughty and monopolising him in the restaurant until the chief waiter started to give him the evil eye!

So a very pleasant evening, topped off by nice long, if slightly chilly hand holding dog walk and then a large bunch of roses and HUGE card this morning, as we won’t be together on Tuesday.


So Mistress is all warm and gooey this morning…


Consensual non-consent explained.

Posted: February 8, 2012 in Uncategorized

I had a query earlier with regards my last post, not about ball busting but the old chestnut of consensual non-consent.

Thankfully I’m not going to have to explain cos one of my favourite bloggers made a post about it recently:

Pandora Blake

Perfectly explained and pretty much the way my own partner and I work and also to a certain degree how I work it with some of my very, very long term subs. Certain words, certain triggers tell me all I need to know when we’re in scene.