Topic selection…

Posted: April 14, 2016 in Daily Posts

I have been feeling a little mean towards the two people who suggested topics, which I am not going to take up.

Simply I cannot write upon subjects I have no feeling for or ones that I don’t enjoy doing.

Wouldn’t be much point would there? Some activities I just don’t do anymore (i.e. strap on) and I’ve never been in the position of employing a maid (well, I tried once and they just messed around)

Topics that might interest you, and would interest me in writing are :

Power Exchange

Keeping control

Bondage – rope or cuffs

Impact play – cane or flogger

Wax play

Sensory deprivation with hoods

The much misunderstood relationship a paying sub has with his Pro Domme

Any of those float your boats?

MM x

  1. max maclean says:

    Of the various topics Mistress listed of being of interest to her, the one that floated my boat was:
    The much misunderstood relationship a paying sub has with his Pro Domme

    So please let’s have your views on that, Mistress. You’ve clearly got something in mind to say about it.

    I assume that the key word in the title is “paying”. As subs, why do we pay for it? Well, we’ve no choice. It’s a question of supply and demand. There are relatively few ladies around who have both the dominant feelings and the willingness to set up in business to provide a service to submissives, mainly men, of whom there are a vast number, who are either are submissive or think they may be, and who have a strong desire to act out their fantasies. And for those women who do set up in business, they face the genuine costs of providing the venue, the appropriate furnishings, all the necessary toys, and her own expensive outfits.

    The inevitability of payment is an inconvenience that should not affect the development of a relationship between Mistress and sub. Payment should be an awkward moment to be quickly got out of the way before the real action begins. Subs should neither feel shame, nor resentment toward the Mistress at the moment of payment. They should not haggle. Rather they should feel grateful to her for taking the many risks to provide the service.

    There is one way to obtain a discount, though. Some Mistresses, but by no means all, like to make bdsm videos, and will sometimes accept a lower tribute if the sub agrees to be filmed. There are risks to the sub if they take this up, such as the risk of recognition when the film goes public, which could destroy the sub’s normal life and career.

    A further risk can occur just as Mistress has her sub firmly strapped to her punishment bench, with the camera already rolling and her finger poised over the dial of her e-stim box. At this moment she may casually mention that a high level of pain is absolutely necessary in order to make a best-selling video.


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